Monday, August 20, 2007

Bonnie Grant (nee Baird)
1948 - 2007

Bonnie Grant of Calgary passed away peacefully on Sunday, August 19, 2007 surrounded by her family. She looked rather old for her age which was likely on the account of being a leap year baby. Technically, Bonnie only had 14 actual birthdays and would have had her fifteenth on Feb 29, 2008. Only having 14 birthdays was such a blessing as it bode well for the “Grant gene”, only had to buy her 14 birthday presents! Bonnie was born and raised in Edmonton, Alberta. She was the second oldest in a family of three sisters and a brother. Her parents, John “Johnny” and Dorothy Baird had a handful with these kids except for Bonnie, who was arguably always an angel. Bonnie married Wayne on June 9th, 1967 and was able to escape Edmonton, and “all of that family” as Wayne would put it, shortly after. Bonnie and Wayne settled in Calgary and managed to raise two amazing kids, Shelley and Pat, despite living in what was called “the hood”. Bonnie began a career at Northern Telecom in 1976 and worked there for 24 years before retiring. It was common to hear from the people that worked for her that “Bonnie was the best manager I ever had”. She was clearly a people person and would always take the time to talk no matter how small the issue.

Bonnie and Wayne retired out to “the cabin” on the Shuswap Lake in the community of Seymour Arm where they cultured a whole new family of friends. The cabin is a very special place for the Grant and the Morris family (Terry, Marylynn, Shannon and Sean) where lots of great memories were made. Stories will be passed on about Bonnie around the fire for many generations to come. She loved her gardening, reading, crafts and of course her bird watching (“crazy bird lady”). In their retirement, Wayne and Bonnie enjoyed traveling to tropical locations to relax and enjoy the many cultures of the world, code word for consuming lots of fruity drinks and relaxing on the beach.


Bonnie brought out the best in everyone she touched. She will be missed and never forgotten as her qualities have been passed to her children and everyone of her grandchildren. Bonnie was predeceased by her father, John Baird whose Irish blue eyes and sense of humor have also been passed down through the family and is always in our hearts and minds. She was also predeceased by her father-in-law, Bob Grant and her brother-in-law, Randy Grant. She is survived by her mother, Dorothy Baird and mother-in-law, Edna Grant (we love you GGB and GGG!); husband of 40 years, Wayne (wow, I bet that was a lot of “Waynnneeee’s”); her daughter and son-in-law, Shelley and Mark Baxter and her grandchildren, Carmen and Stephen; her son and daughter-in-law, Patrick and Mary Grant and her grandchildren, Robyn and Willem; her sister and sister’s husband, Marylynn and Terry Morris; her sister and sister’s husband, Joanne and Grant McMillan, her brother and brother’s wife, Bill and Kelly Baird; her sister Vicki Baird; brother-in-laws, Tim (Carol), Mike (Colette), and Val and many extended relatives and close friends she made throughout her life.

Special thanks for all the help and support from the staff at Unit 47 at the Tom Baker Cancer Center and our home nurse, Carol Boyer. A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, August 25, 2007 at 1:00pm at the Crescent Heights Community Center, 1101 - 2 Street NW, Calgary, Alberta. A website has been set up for people to send condolences, tell stories, or to view some information about Bonnie (www.bonniegrant.blogspot.com) In lieu of flowers, feel free to make donations to the Alberta Cancer Foundation. c/o Tom Baker Cancer Centre.

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63 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne

I would like to express my sincere sympathy to all the Grants' and the
Bairds' for the loss of Bonnie, a wife, a child, a mother and for myself
a dear friend. Someone I very much appreciated.. Bonnie was only ten years
older, but for me she was always very wise.

She was a girl you could talk to. Bonnie rhymes with the Shuswap. Out
at the lake, around the fire, we'd chat, and laugh ... and when the croud
thinned out and the discussion became more serious ... thats when I
discovered that Bonnie was wise.

Beyond being so pleasent and funny, I knew her to be honest and forthright
in her manners, she was an example. She was wisdom ...

Dear Bonnie, we had so much fun ... you left us too soon ... Silly girl, I
didn'y get a chance to say goodbye ... I wanted to tell you that you
touched me that you made the world a better place.

All my condolences to Wayne Grant, Dorothy Baird and all the family.

Kevin Morris

Anonymous said...

To Wayne & Family:

Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of Bonnie.

I enjoyed seeing Bonnie and Wayne each time they came to the Tom Baker ancer Centre Outpatient Department.

May all the wonderful memories you have comfort you through the difficult days.

Diane Wells
dianewel@cancerboard.ab.ca

Anonymous said...

Hi Wayne: Lloyd was kind enough to let us know about Bonnie's death. We are thinking of you and your family. Deepest sympathies, Harvey and Gail

Anonymous said...

Hi Mary & Pat,
James told us all this morning about Bonnie’s passing. I’m so glad you made the decision you made when you did, so that you at least had the opportunity to spend the last few months with her.

While I feel for you and your sorrow at this time, I guess you must have some sense of relief that her suffering wasn’t any more prolonged than it was.

It all sounds a bit strange by e-mail, but I hope you get the message that we’re all thinking of you. Even my kids (class) wanted to send you an e-mail. I told them it probably wasn’t appropriate for you to receive a whole bunch of mail at such a difficult time, but I promised I would pass on their best wishes, so there, I’ve done that!

I hope you don’t mind, but I recently gave your e-mail address to Colin, the computer guy. He was very upset to hear that you had left and why, and he wanted to get in touch as he thought you were pretty nice people.

I agree with him.

Love,

Peter

Anonymous said...

Hi Wayne, Shelley and Patrick,

It's been a long time since we've gotten together so it was with shock and sadness that we read of Bonnie's passing.
Please accept our sincere condolences and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
We hope to see you all on Saturday.

Anonymous said...

Wayne, Shelley, Pat, spouses, inlaws, outlaws and et al.,

Our sincere sympathy on losing such a wonderful person. Our family is saddened in your loss and extend all of the possible condolences.

Bonnie was an amazing women and you have all been so lucky to have her for what has seemed a short time. I was truly lucky to have known her as well.

She is the only person that has called me a smart-ass in my teens, in my 20's and in my 30's. I was hoping to be called a 40 year old smart ass by her as well. She would be proud of the two smart- ass kids I am raising. Bonnie knew a smart ass when she saw one. She had a wonderful smart ass husband and a couple of lippy kids. All in turn reproduced to create a wonderful family of smart asses.

She sure did have fun. We will miss her.

I will see you all at the celebration of her wonderful life and to share the love everyone has for her.


Our Love and sympathy,
The McLauchlins

Anonymous said...

Dear Shelley
Thanks for sending me the blog site. I tried to add a comment but I don't think I did it right. That is not unexpected, so I am sending a long a message this way.
I am so devastated to hear about Bonnie. I had no idea her cancer was so advanced. I kept thinking that I should call Dorothy to see how she was doing but seemed to keep putting that on the back burner so to speak.
Please pass this along to Wayne.
Dear Wayne: I am so sorry to hear about Bonnie. Please accept our deepest sympathies. We always enjoyed your visits here on the Island and being able to catch up on all the news or your family. Bonnie was always such a happy person and full of smiles. She was so proud of her family and all of you were her whole life.
I think I have known Bonnie forever, well at least for the past 50 years when we first moved to Edmonton. She spent a lot of time at our house with Bev, and of course we all spent a lot of time back and forth at both houses.
We were there the day you got married and of course that was another excuse for a party.which as you know there were many.
If you are our here anytime please come and see us. We would love to see you.
I have sent a donation to the Wheels for Wellness Soceity here on the Island. They have a web site www.wheelsforwellness.com where you can read about them. We have used them three time as Read had to go to Victoria for eye surgery and I did not want to drive down there myself. It was great for us and they operate strictly on donations. It seems that at least three or four times a week they are transporting cancer patients to Victoria for treatment so I hope my donations are helping cancer patients.
Look forward to seeing you sometime
Take care Charlotte and Read.

Anonymous said...

Wayne & family
It was with great sadness when reading Bonnie's death announcement.My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Bonnie Tymchuk(nee Tomazewski) An old Jr. High School Friend.

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and family
We are so sad to hear of dear Bonnie's passing. We feel the pain with you but feel comfort in knowing that she is now in a place of peace and is free of pain.
We look forward to seeing you back in Seymour.
Carol Schulz and family

Anonymous said...

My sincere condolences to the family of Bonnie.
I came to know Bonnie over many years at Northern Telecom/Nortel.
Bonnie was clearly a favorite manager for many employees who were lucky enough to work with her.
She was always friendly, understanding and commanded a great deal of respect.
I am better for knowing her...

Perry Koch

Anonymous said...

Hi Mary and Shelley,
I came across this beautiful poem and I thought of Bonnie. I wanted to pass this on to you and your family.
Love,
Sharon and Mike


When I am gone, release me, let me go...
I have so many things to see and so,
You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears;
Be happy that we had so many years.

I gave to you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave to me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you each have shown,
But now it's time I travelled on alone.

So grieve a while for me if grieve you must;
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It's only for a while that we must part,
So bless the memories within your heart.

I won't be far away, for life goes on;
So if you need me, call and I will come,
Though you can't see me, I'll be near
And If you listen with your heart, you'll hear, All of my love around
you soft and clear.

And then, when you must come this way alone,
I'll greet you with a smile and say, "Welcome home."

Anonymous said...

Wayne,Shelley and Pat

We would like to express our deepest sympathies to all of you and your families we all know that Bonnie will be very sadley missed by each and everyone of you.We will not be able to join you in your celebration on Sat.on the life of a Wife and Mother and grandmother so we will see you Shelley when you return to work.Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Frank and Doreen Walz

Dale Peck said...

To Aunt Dorothy and all of Bonnie’s family:



I was so saddened to hear the news about Bonnie yesterday. Aunt Dorothy, you called to tell me just 20 minutes after I sealed your birthday card in the envelope. I had remembered your birthday this year as you always remember mine each year and I wanted to surprise you with a card. So I was still thinking about all of you when my phone rang. I’m not going to say that I can’t imagine what you’re going through because I CAN imagine. I saw how it affected my mother and I know how it affected me. I saw how it affected Cathy and her mother when Cathy’s brother passed last January. There are many of you to lean on one another for support. You’re probably going to need it. It was a long and quiet drive back home after work last night. My drive time is my time and I usually have the radio going but all the way home I had the radio off and I reflected on the times I’ve spent with you. I know they haven’t been many but I remember them well. I was trying to think of how many times I had seen Bonnie in my life. I wish it had been more, saying the same for all of you. I wish there weren’t so many miles between us. I also wish our lives weren’t so busy. What’s happened to us? It seems like everyday I get up, whether I’m working that day or not, my mind is a mental to-do list of things I never get done because there are so many. I feel like I’m running a race sometimes. I know that someday Catherine and I are going to have to take a couple of weeks and take a drive up and get re-acquainted with many of you. I’m thankful my memory serves me well most of the time and on the way home last night, I rolled over in my mind many of our visits together. Of course, many of them were when Grandma used to come down and visit with most of you. Good times. My youth. I lived for summer baseball in those years. I call those my summers of love. I remember my first visit to Canada with mom when I was seven. What an experience for a little kid! I remember Vicki as a baby then and I remember Uncle Johnny giving me the biggest bowl of ice cream I’d ever seen and sitting back and laughing while watching me eat it. I still remember it was butterscotch. Mom was furious that he gave me so much ice cream to eat. Didn’t bother me a bit. I also remember standing on Grandma’s screened front porch and watching the lightning storms late at night. I loved that big field across the street from Grandma’s house and I have a great memory of watching Uncle Charlie playing softball in that men’s league he was in. That probably sparked my interest in playing ball. I guess sometimes all we have are our memories. Luckily, it seems the good ones really stick. I love my family and I love where I am in life right now but I still reminisce for the old days. Lots of good times. I’m sure you all have lots of good memories of Bonnie. Hold on to them. If you’re like me, they’ll bring a smile to your face when you need them. Please know that Catherine and I have you in our thoughts.

Dale and Catherine Peck
8/21/07

Anonymous said...

To the Grant/Baird Family

Please accept my most sincere condolences in your time of sorrow. You don't know me, but I worked with Bonnie (if only for a short time) at Nortel. She was on of the best maangers in the place hands down. Although I didn't work with her long she did leave a great impression on me and I'll certainly not forget her. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers!

Thanks Bonnie. A great lady!!

Teresa Labreche

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and Family
My sincere sympathy, the world was a better place with a woman like Bonnie in it; she will be deeply missed. I will always recall that she brought joy and lots of laughter everywhere she went, just with her smile or silly pranks. I mostly will remember her excitement about life and always challenging me and everyone else about making sure you live your life to the best of your abilities, taking every opportunity to make improvements, spend time on the beach with family and friends; she encouraged me to pursue other life possibilities. I am so sorry I have been out of touch for a while, living in the North Country, but I did always love the emails. I know that she is with you Wayne and with the family, she will always be your soul mate and best friend. I wish I could have one last time to enjoy beer and wings with you both. I am not sure if I will be able to make it on Saturday; you do know I will be there in spirit.

Big Hug
Love Melane

Anonymous said...

Grant Family:

Our Sincere, deepest condolences. Pat and Mary, you made the right choice to come home, a small sacrifice, I'm sure you realize, to spend the last few months with your mom. I am sure it meant the world to her.

Growing up with Pat and later, Mary and the kids, we have had the good fortune of attending many Grant family functions. When reflecting on the times we've shared, the strongest impression I'm left with is that Bonnie, the Grants and extended family knew how to have fun, cherish each other and enjoy life. Bonnie will be deeply missed. She lived well and she taught her family how to live well.

See you Saturday.

The Ewacha Family

Anonymous said...

Hi Shelley,

Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you during this difficult time.

I'm here if you ever need anything - and I mean it.

I sure am glad to have met your mom and I could tell from the brief meeting she was an amazing lady.

I know that this is a very busy time for you and your family - my deepest sympathy to your Dad, Pat and his family, Mark, Carmen and Stephen.


Take care!
Sincerely,

Mary

Anonymous said...

Awe Bonnie! Too soon!
Remember the first time Leo was Santa
Remember our Baseball diamond out behind the plant
Remember the summer games -Winnipeg in particular
Remember the laughs
Remember the goofy stuff
Remember –she was the one who sat and listened and then guided you though your troubles and made it seem not so bad after all.
I’ll always remember.
Wayne and Family, Bonnie’s life was beautiful…and it will go on forever in the hearts and memories of those it has touched, with deepest Sympathy to you all.
Cathy Ewing Switzer (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

Wayne & family,

Bonnie enriched my life & touched my soul - for that I am grateful.

Wonderful memories of fun, laughter, hard work, & oh those parties! at Nortel remain with me.

Bonnie's spirit is now present with us.

Our thoughts and prayers,

Mike & Pete Garrett
Mike Garrett (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

Shelley I am thinking about you and your family and saying a prayer for you as you deal with this this part of you journey. If there's anything you need, please call me.
Mary Cameron (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

It is with a heavy heart that I here of the passing of such a wonderful lady. She touched a great many people with her smiles and concern for others. May she now enjoy the peace that has earned on this earth.

Cliff McGuire and Family
Clifford McGuire (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

Hi Mary,

I saw Pat's mother's obituary in the Herald today and just wanted to write to tell you that I'm so sorry for your loss. I know Pat's mother has been sick for a little while now so this wasn't entirely unexpected, but still I know that advanced warning doesn't make it any easier when the time comes. Please express my condolences to Pat.

Jennifer

Anonymous said...

Hi Patrick and Mary and gorgeous Robyn and Willam,
So sorry about you mums death Patrick. Wow - that certainly was the right decision to go home early. I'm so pleased that you had that time together.
Sorry I haven't been accessable via e-mail but we went wireless and have a new e-mail address now. This must be such a hard time for you both and for all of your family. I just wanted to let you know that we were thinking about you and talking about you at school. I've included some old fun photo's of your time here to try and cheer you up. Because I'm new at this photo attachment stuff I'm going to try and send them seperately. If you dont receive them soon it means I've given up.
Lots of love Lana

Anonymous said...

Wayne, Shelly, Pat & Families
If its true that "you are what you eat.." then about 15% of me is Bonnie's cooking - and good cooking it was - she took pity on me at the Lake, especially spring and fall because she knew what a klutz I am in the kitchen. I also find myself thinking of her the last few months when ever I clean a mess or snag a dust bunny - Bonnie was a meticulous houesekeeper. I may lose weight in the future but as I do I'll remember those roasted ham, candied yams and roasts of beef - and I will remember Bonnie ( o.k, ok. I'll remember the Caesars too..) Bob Beebe

Anonymous said...

Pat and Mary,

Dean and I are filled with sorrow for your loss. We understand the hurt that your entire family is experiencing now and we only hope that the memories of Bonnie will console your grief over time. Please let us know if there is anything that we could possibly do to help during this time of need. Out hearts and our thoughts are with you.

Dean and I send our most sincere regrets for your loss. Bonnie will be missed by so many… she was a very lovely lady who leaves a legacy of fond memories.

All our hearts,

Carey (and Dean)

Anonymous said...

Dear Pat and Mary,

I was sorry to hear of the death of your mom. Thanks for letting me know. I will be out of town on the 25th and unable to change the plane ticket or I would most certainly be there to share this sorrow and to celebrate the life of your wonderful mother. Please know my thoughts and prayers will be with you and yours.

I did not know your mom, Pat, but I knew the product of her mothering - both you and some of your friends - and I have been impressed. I have heard you speak of her with highest regards so I feel that I know her.

There is always a void when you have to say goodbye to a mother. I hope you share with me the knowledge that you will see her again and she will be free from the pain she has suffered. She is happy and busy and preparing for each of you to join her in your appointed time.

Please know I care and I am here whenever you need an extra shoulder to lean on or a friend to chat with.

You and Mary are two very special people in my life. I know your mother is proud of the good things you have accomplished ~ especially giving her those two precious grandchildren.

God bless you with peace and understanding as you make the transition at this time.

With love,

Luella Payne (Lu)

Anonymous said...

Wayne, Shelley, Pat and Family,

Bonnie was a great woman, I can honestly say I've never met a more sincere caring individual than her. She touched my life in ways that will always bring happiness to my life.

To this day I still remember Sunday suppers with the family, how wonderful the meals always were, and her laughter during. Even though I wasn't part of the family Bonnie always made me feel like I was one of her kids.

I would like to express my deepest sympathy to everyone for the loss of a woman who had it all and gave every bit of it. I sincerely believe I'm a better person for knowing her.

Shayleen and Glenn Ottas

Anonymous said...

I was fortunate to spend much of my Nortel career working with Bonnie and in fact when I was a new manager she helped show me the ropes (I think she greased a few of them up for me first though). Bonnie was always a pleasure to be around and was usually the voice of reason in periods of chaos. I have nothing but fond and warm memories of her and as much as those of us who worked with her over the years will miss her our thoughts are with the family at this sad time.

We are all richer for being around Bonnie but the world is poorer without her.

Mike Bridgman

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and sympathy to the family and friends of Bonnie at this shitty time!
Bonnie was my manager and friend at Nortel, and I can still here her infectious laughter as I called in to tell her some crazy story as to why I was calling in sick that day!
She was full of positive energy, she was a strong woman and I've always had great admiration for her.
I am sorry for your loss, and like so many others - I am a better person for knowing Bonnie. She knew how to bring out the best in people.
Sincerely,
Jen Hendricks

Anonymous said...

Wayne and family

Our sincere sympathies to you all. Bonnie was a genuine person. We worked together for many years at Nortel. She was always a "people first" person, which is a true character I admired about her. Bonnie was open, friendly, always looking for the "fair" treatment for all. Employees were honoured to have Bonnie as her manager, let alone as a friend. We had many laughs together and when the going got tough at work, we had many serious discussions, but her heart was always for the people and the team she supported. She was a wonderful friend and shared many stories about the times at the lake. May you and your family treasure her memories and the good times. I'm a true believer that her spirit will never leave.

Peggy Vockeroth (from the Nortel Days)

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and all of the family

Bonnie was a very special person and her loss will affect many lives. She always made our family feel welcome whenever we saw her. She was gracious, kind, enthusiatic, the kind of person you were glad to know. She told great stories, lots of them about Wayne. She was independent and interesting and the sound of her laughter will be missed. Bonnie is "unforgettable".
Please accept our sincere sympathy for the such a great loss.


Vivian Stuart and
Nancy, Al, Cassie and Derek Dee

Anonymous said...

Hi to all of the Grant family.
Our hearts and our prayers are with you all at this time. We remember Bonnie so fondly. From the time that you, Wayne, and she,were huddled around our fire place in the cold; to the days on the Grant beach with all of the grandchildren, hers and ours.
Bonnie was a clear thinker and a strong person, from what we saw it was her family and the love you all shared and gave to her that kept her strong.
We think that same love will go a long way in helping the family get through the next weeks and months.
I want to say a special word to Carmen, Steven, Robin and Wilum: I know how much you loved your Grandma and she loved you. She will always live in your memories and in your hearts.

Take care. Helena and John

aunt lori said...

Bonnie's family & friends,
Our sympathies in the loss of 'one the good one's'.
We worked with Bonnie at Nortel for many years and through many changes - not only changes in the business but the changes we all went through in our lives in those 20/30 & 40 something years. Bonnie enriched our lives with her humour, common sense and authenticity and we are blessed to have shared this time and place with her. I look forward to seeing / meeting many of you on Saturday as we celebrate her life.
Lori Craig (McLaughlin)
also on behalf of Dan Oicle and Bonnie-Jean Patton

Anonymous said...

Shelley,

Sorry to here about your mom's passing. She fought a hard battle and can now be at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care. We'll see you soon.

Trina Elliott

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne & family

Ed & I are deeply saddened by the loss of Bonnie and wish to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Bonnie was such a special vibrant person. We miss her very much. Her absence from Seymour has been such a palpable thing this spring and summer.

Because she was such a fighter and not ready to go she made it difficult to say good-bye and to tell her what her friendship meant.

I only met Bonnie about five years ago at a Ladies of the Lake meeting.
It doesn't happen often in life that you meet someone with whom you immediately feel the comfort and compatibility of an old friend. So many good memories: the month as neighbours in Mexico; the weekly Bridge nights in Seymour; the Margarita happy hours, the Mexican Fiesta Party; working together on the Fall Fair, Garden Competitions and AWE. Bonnie's intelligence and insightfulness, her organizational abilities, her sense of humour and the sparkle in her eyes will all be missed.

We prayed throughout the last six months that Bonnie would find peace on her final journey, knowing that she accomplished so much and had much richness in her too short life. Coming from a close family, having a successful career, a strong and loving forty year marriage, wonderful children and grandchildren, numerous friends, and taking early retirement to live in beautiful Seymour Arm.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will all miss her very much.

Marilyn & Ed Doll

Anonymous said...

Bonnie was a wonderful lady,great spirit,kind heart.Bonnie was my manager back in the DSD days of Northern Telecom,3x3 dept.Often she would get a phone# from Sharon or myself to give us a wake up call in the morning so we wouldn't be late for work.She kept a caring eye on us younger gals who enjoyed the late nights.We were so young back then.Bonnie would often say
"now girls be good" She was so easy to talk to and help guide us in the right direction.She has left such an impact on us all.Bye for now Bonnie.Your always in my heart!
Janice Stokes (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

Shelley and Mark

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom.

Our thoughts are with you.

Judy & Norm Kneeshaw
Judy Kneeshaw (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and family so sorry to read that Bonnie has been taken from you all. We have been thinking of her since we heard that she was ill. Just to let you know, she was the best baby sitter we ever had.
Frank & Jeannette Bruchal (Sherwood Park, AB)

Anonymous said...

To the Grant Family
My sympathies
Bonnie was a true leader and a pleasure to work with . We worked together at Northern Telecom/ Nortel . She had a way of touching you and inspiring you to become better and strive for more . She truly was a remarkable woman with a genuine pure heart ,who always had a kind word , an ear to listen and even a hug if you needed it . she will be missed
Peggy Zicha (Kitchener, ON)

Anonymous said...

Deepest Sympathy Our prayers are with You All
Leo sweeney (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Linda,Ed Levasseur (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

To Wayne and Family,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Bonnie was a great influence on many of us back in the good old Nortel days.
Jim Hinger (Goodsoil, SK)

Anonymous said...

Wayne,Pat, Mary, Shelley & Mark,

Our thoughts are with you all during this very difficult time. Bonnie was a wonderful person, she touched many lives.

Take care everyone. See you Saturday.

Spring Ellen Hollinger

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne, Shelley, Pat and Family

We were so devastated to hear the news about Bonnie.
I (Irene) was luck enough to have known Bonnie since her first day at Nortel and we became friends immediately
from then on.
We cared for her deeply and truly feel with you in your loss.
We know how your hearts ache so badly right now, just keep thinking about all the happy times and remember that Bonnie lives
on through you, your children and grandchildren.
We truly hope from our hearts, that your pain will decrease & that your spirits will soon gain strength again.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Irene & Les Norczen (Calgary)

Anonymous said...

We are so sad to hear about the passing of Pat's mom. Our thoughts and hearts
are with you and your family during this very trying time.

Sincere condolenses,

Verne & Brenda

Judy Kaye said...

I would like to express my sincere sympathy to the Grant Family.
Bonnie was a wonderful person and always a joy to be around. She was such a people person, who was always positive and honest. She will be sadly missed by all who knew her.

Judy Kaye
Nortel

Anonymous said...

Aloha Bonnie,

We are so sad to hear that you were asked to leave so early along this journey. We are all grateful for and blessed by the wonderful family you and Wayne created while you were here. What an amazing tree!
Just as you brightened the lives you touched with kindness and love we will carry your gifts and pass them along to others in your honor. We will do our best to celebrate your life with joy and laughs but please forgive us if we break down and express the deep sorrow we feel in your absence.

Thank you for all you've given my family.

We'll look for you on the sunny side of the mountain and on the wings of Shuswap birds every time we are blessed with a visit.

With Love & Aloha,

Talia, Bodhi, Lyle & Tom

Anonymous said...

To Wayne and family,
I can’t imagine how you are feeling right now. I am out of tissue here. I wished I could give you all a big hug (but will see you soon). I finished this poem last night for Bonnie.
Love you all,
Sharon


With the passing of you Bonnie, my heart fills of sorrow and oppress,
To have known such a caring and beautiful woman, not enough words can express,
Thinking about all the times we shared over a cup of tea,
Discussing work, staying up late, and talking over patterns of her Denby,
Hanging out with you and Wayne was something I liked to do,
What I’d give right now to hear another Ohhhhhhh Mike from you,
For when I see a hummingbird fly or a fish jump,
A tear will welt in my eye, and in my throat a lump,
All the incredible lessons you have to taught me to know,
I’ll pass on to our daughter as I watch her grow,
For all the sweet memories with you, your smile and caring brown eyes,
For many a night to come we will share with your family ties,
Because without you Seymour Arm will not be the same,
But our friendship and memories will remind us why we came,
So until the time we meet again,
Mike, Ava and I will think of you, our dear Bonnie Grant, our loving, caring and unforgettable friend.

Love and miss you,
Sharon Skiba

Anonymous said...

You were such an amazing woman and helped so many of us at Nortel.
I'll always remember your big smile.

Thank you for being you.

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and Family,
As Dale's letter attests too, even though miles and the waves of life send us in different directions, we are all members of a unique family wherein the bonds of love are not diminished by time and space.When I think of Bonn I know kindness. Even though there were some years between us I knew my cousin had in her husband, a soulmate. As I grew older and watched their children take their place in the world the love they had been given was even more obvious. Shell and Pat had grown into adulthood as kind, gentle and strong individuals. This can only happen when you are surrounded with wisdom and love. Wayne and Bonnie always gave of themselves to others-freely- with nothing expected in return. When I struggled in school with my math, Wayne spent countless hours at my Grandmother's diningroom table trying desperately to bring me into the world of his genius-Math. I had been left battered and in tears by math teachers. Convinced that there was something wrong with me,as other subjects were a cinch for me.To even say the name math made me ill. But under Wayne's tutelage my tears abated and I felt good about myself again. I am sad to say though, no Disney movie was to take place. That new Math escapes me to this day but what Wayne taught me stayed. Discipline and hard work brings its own rewards. Bonnie also came to my rescue when once again I perceived the world was laughing at me. We had all taken a huge camping trip together- Uncles, Aunts, cousins galore and many friends. These outings were not unusual in our tight knitted family when the kids were small. I loved children and all the little ones would follow me as if I was the pied piper. We would trip off into the forest and the fields and we would make believe and play for hours. We returned one time to the adults all gathered together where they had been laughing , visiting and enjoying a break from the kids. One of the adults called out where did you go this time guys. I explained that we had been gathering magic mushrooms to grind into dust and we sprinkled it on us and it would grant us our minds wish, so all us kids went off to places like Africa to hunt lions and little Sean shouted he had been to the moon. After this proclamation the adults all erupted into laughter. But I was too young and felt odd with the quality, of the laughter. It was a few years later when I was old enough to understand that Bonnie knowing what I had felt that day, explained the place of "magic mushrooms in the world." By then older, I was able to understand, her and I laughed so hard I was crying.
All anyone had to do over the years was stand and watch Wayne, Bonnie and their family and you could see easily a deep abiding love they have for each other through their children's eyes. Shell and Pat there are no words that I can say that can make the pain of losing a loving parent away.I remember your kind words when my beloved father and your Uncle Charlie passed. I can only say that I am so terribly sorry that you have to wear this pain. Just know this please, Wayne accept the love from my family to your family in your time of such devastating grief.
Love Charlann, Ray, Jennifer and Joshua ( I apologize for the length but how can we put a lifetime in a few words. A hug to you all.)

Anonymous said...

Please except my sincerest sympathy to the entire family. To know her, was to love her. To anyone who was blessed enough to know here, we knew she was a special lady. As I read through all the comments, it is more apparent our Nortel family, now much extended, wasn't just a place to work, people cared for each other. Her loved touched many, a angel on earth.

Anonymous said...

Shelley and family,

Deb and I would like to express our deep sympathy for you and yours in this difficult time.

Take care,

Tad and Deb Davies

Unknown said...

Dear Wayne and Family,
I heard of Bonnie's passing only today and I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. Bonnie was such a magnificent soul!! I worked for many years with Bonnie at Nortel and I assure you she touched all those who knew her. I will never forget the hospitality you shared with all of us when we houseboated up to your beach and the whiplash Pat gave me when we went tubing.

Although it has been a number of years since I've seen Bonnie I still think of her often and remember fondly the times and experiences we all shared together.

Bonnie will be missed by her family and her extended family from Nortel. She was a fantastic friend!

Thank you for putting this message board together as it was a real pleasure to read the comments from all the people who remember her so fondly. Take care...

Wayne Rambow

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and Family;

Bonnie will be sorely missed by us and all who knew her! She positively touched people with her GRACIOUSNESS, SENSE OF HUMOR, LEVITY, EMPATHY and SINCERE WARMTH and DYNOMITE SMILE!!! Bonnie was just plain FUN to know and to be around.

We WILL miss Bonnie but we will NOT FORGET HER!

GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!

Debbie, Bob, Stacey and Family, Jamie and Family

Anonymous said...

Wayne and family
Our thoughs are with you and the family. Our sympathy from all in Seymour arm.
Nick Jager (Seymour Arm, BC)

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and Family;
Thank you for the lovely celebration yesterday. Bonnie is alive in our hearts. God Bless. Carol and Denis Gardiner (Calgary, AB)

Anonymous said...

dear Wayne Shelley & Pat
This is from your Aunt Shirley
I was shocked and saddend to hear of Bonnie's passing and since I had lost touch with you since I had moved to Red Deer five years ago. Some time ago I was back out to Shuswap and did try to get in touch via your cell but no luck .
My heart goes you to you and all your family and I feel badly that I did not get see your lovely grand children.
Hopefully we will get together sometime in the not to distant future.
In this very sad time for you the one
thing you have for years to come will
so many memorys of happy times ofyears
past.
Please give me a call some time as I am one of the last remaing Grants.
Ph.403-314-0054
My heart goes out to you all at this sad time and I am sure with all the caring friends you have made through the years you will manage.
you loving Aunt Shirley simac1@telus.net

wendy said...

wayne and family.
I just found about Bonnie, my sincere sympathy to you and your family, I only recently lost someone very dear yo ma a few months ago to cancer. I feel for you.
Sincerely, Wendy Nelson

Anonymous said...

Wayne, Shelley & Patrick;

Our family would like you to know our thoughts are with you all!
We are so sorry we weren't here to attend Bonnie's service. We were on holidays in a pretty isolated spot. We got home the Monday after and mom told me the service had been on the Sat. before. I ask mom to call the cell and leave us a message as we were checking everyday, but she didn't, so we didn't find out until we got home.
Shelly I have wanted to talk with you, but was asked throughout your mom's illness to please respect your privacy, so we did. There was not a single day that went by that I didn't wander how you all were doing. Please call me when you have some time.
If there is anything we can do please let me know. I am not working and could help with anything you need.
We were actually out in the Shushwap twice this summer and were thinking of calling and trying to come by for a visit. First time I have stayed at the Shuswap. We found the cabin thanks to Vicki's directions. We came by boat and not a soul was there. We sat out in the boat and I had a few minutes to myself and I said a prayer to Bonnie and had a good cry. What a beautiful spot that is! While we were doing that my husband was taking a few pictures and out came a lady to the right of your cabin, and was really watching us, so we left. I am glad I finally got to see your cabin. I now know what everyone talks about when they say how hard your dad has worked. It is simply georgeous!! Tell Wayne, great job!
Well if I could see you all in person, I would give you a huge hug and kiss, and please know we think about you alot and would love to see you again one day.
Love your cousin Terry, John & Amanda Szlepka (O'Sullivan)
XXXX OOOO

Murray Costella said...

Hi Pat and Family:

My parents had informed me of your loss. Please accept our deepest condolences.

Take care.

The Costellas

Unknown said...

Wayne

I was so sorry to hear that Bonnie was ill and had passed away. I remember how fondly you always spoke of her and your family and the wonderful times you had at the lake. Cherish your memories. Sheila Donaldson
sheiladonaldson@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Dear Wayne and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Bonnie's illness and of her passing.
Even though I had only known her for a very short time, she was always so open to friendship and I always enjoyed my visits with her out at the lake. What a truly kind woman she was and she will be deeply missed by all her knew her. My only regret is that I didn't get to know her better during the few years that my Mom has had the cabin in Seymour Arm. But the times that I did spend visiting with her left an indelible mark.
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Your Seymour Arm (Summer) Neighbours
Nicole Befurt and family; Tom, James and Liam

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